People get so hurt from love and they even commit suicide on behalf of love. Actually they may do this for broken love. When they die for broken love they used to call it as true love. But is it really true love in there?
No its not. Who is responsible for your pain that you feel? Your pain was created by yourself. What you planted in your mind will come as harvest. If you planted desire in your mind, defiantly someday it will come as an agony in your mind. You can’t blame on anybody. Your own mind has created all your thoughts and expectations. If you have a bad relationship with someone, you would create a mentality that love hurts. Love gives pain. You would start blaming love for the pain you received from your relationship. But love did not do anything. You are the creator of your pain. You are the creator of your own expectations. You used the word “Love” to prove the intensity of your feelings. Love doesn’t hurt anyone. You create your own pain and put the blame on love. Did that person force you to love? You loved for your own requirements, for the requirement in your mind. Keep remember that nobody can ever force someone to love. It’s because, love is an extremely personal feelings that can be created only by yourself in your own mind. And the other hand if someone doesn’t like us, how we force them to love us? It’s completely not ethical. Everybody has rights for decide what they want or don’t, as a human. So…when someone refuses us, if we try to terminate our life, is it a true love? Or at lease is there any love in there? No way… it’s just a foolish thing for commit suicide for breaking up with someone.
However, if you really hurt about your broken love, it’s good to think deeply, what was the root course for your pain. Firstly, your partner may break up with you due to your own mistake or your bad habits. In that case you are the person who led the way your relationship to the breaking point. But it is still not worth to give death penalty for yourself as a punishment, for what you’ve done. Learn from your mistakes and bad habits; try to convince your partner sometime it works. Secondly, if your partner is just leaving you, and if she or he does not love you anymore, or he or she is going after another one, why do you worry about them? Or why you do you worry about you? Please let them go away. They are not worth for you. So why you commit suicide for a person who doesn’t even think about you?
So still do you believe commit suicide for love, is the truelove?
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