Could you love someone like a fairytale?

Well, is this possible? Yes. Once, my friend had this type of love affair. It was an amazing love story. They did travel  together.  They did shopping together, they ate together. They studied together. They did almost everything together. But they were not living together until they married. Most remarkable thing was, though they liked each others that much, he or she never proposed to each other, until the very last week before they get married. They never spoke about their marriage or their future. They trusted each other abnormally. They lived in their own world. They didn’t care if; external world is existing either. They did only love. Is it possible to exists, that type of romance? I feel it’s like a fairytale. 

   

Love is a wonderful thing. Falling in real love, feel like a beautiful fairytale of course. but it depends, if only you just know how to feel it. It doesn’t matter, who you love with, it matters how you do it and how you experience it. If you know how to fall in love with someone and enjoy every moment of it, you’ll be able to experience it and cherish it better than many others who think love is just an excuse for sex or a way to lean on someone else. It doesn’t matter if you’re already in love or falling in love with someone right this moment, Just try these devotions and commitments to know how to fall in love like you’re in a fairytale, and you may fall into a perfect one!

More flexible, more listening and more patients will be the main key point for such a love. as an example, suppose your partner is suggesting something for you. So…Always listen carefully to your partner, be patient whatever you heard. Then talk with your lover calmly. If it’s a bad thing or a good thing, try to show the pros and cons lovingly. Then let your partner to decide it. If he or she really loves you, never get a wrong decision. However if something goes wrong and turned it to a warm argument don’t fear about, keep remember that this argument’s end should be a good decision for both of you. Never walk away from an argument and shut the door on your partner. Even if it hurts like crazy, talk about it and always end the argument with a warm hug and a kiss.

As possible as you could, stay in touch. You don’t have to be with each other all the time, but try to at least call or text and updating present situation. Maybe, when you are shopping with your friends you could buy some gifts for you partner. So they will realize wherever you go, in minds you stay with your lover. When you have some spare times on weekends, try to spend with your lover at a park, in cinema or a picnic. In this way you can know each other’s desires and wants more and more. And always take photographs or make home videos together. Special memories of everyday moments can actually help both of you fall more in love with each other each time you watch those photographs or videos again and again.

Never lose the faith about your true love. Same time, keep remember that you’ll never clap in one hand; you need two hands for that. Likewise such a love cannot exist in a single heart. Both hearts must be equally shared, then your fairytale romance will definitely have a happily ever after.

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Didn’t find your love yet?

Are you thinking all nights long, “Why am I alone this world? Why I didn’t find my love yet, while my all friends are falling with someone?” How many sleepless nights did you spend, dreaming about your love? There are a lot of couples in this world, and an equally high number of single men and women. So why is it that you can’t find love when everyone is having love almost all the time? Why do you think you can’t find love? You’re short? Ugly? Boring? Not earning enough money? Not a great communicator? Or all of the above reasons? In addition to that, May be you are a workaholic person, who is dedicating only for your business or for office works. Sometime you may seek a person who will never even close you to. It May be your bad attitudes, and Etc. Otherwise every kind of a person has their own love. However, don’t you see there are lot of people with all shortcomings, but still they have their love and live happily. So why is it not working for you? Do you know the actual reason for "why is that"?Actual reason is you are not giving any opportunity for yourself to find the love.

So how you give an opportunity to find a love for you? There are two ways; one is just sitting on your back, till love comes to you. But it’s once in a blue moon. Other thing is you must find the love like you find a job with your qualifications. But the thing is you don’t know where to find the love. so that’s why we need friends. We must be social with good friends. You can meet new people there. and hang out with new friends every week or so. The more people you meet, the more chances you will get to find a love for you. Not only that, but also makes an opportunity to select the right person for you. So if you are not having much friends or if its rather difficult you to be social with people, you can go to a Gym, Aerobic class, Yoga class or dancing class. So there are full of opportunities in there. Just give a little push. You’ll be able to see how easy it is to meet new friends and interact with potential love interests.

Sometime you may fail first try and second due to rejection of you love. Its obvious like job opportunities. When you find a good job, your application might reject few times. And we can’t expect everyone we fall in love with to fall right back into love with us. So…when someone rejects your love deal it with gently, and move to another and try to find someone who likes you. So always stay positive and happily, you never know who is looking at you and dreaming about you. You stay on your course and love will come knocking on your heart sooner than you think.   

If you’re looking for love and want to find love, but can’t find love, you only have yourself to blame. It’s easy to blame circumstances, but it takes a brave person to accept that it’s their own fault. And it’s the brave person who takes chances and will eventually find love and lead a happy life. So who are you going to be?

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Little things will make your romance better.

Sometimes Love and romance not depend on the very expensive gifts, or luxurious vacations. True love is really depending on bunch of little acts and concerns what you are doing in your day today life. Sometime you may, hope to give very expensive gifts for your partner, same time you may forget to say “I love you” for months. It doesn’t matter whether you give an expensive gifts or cheap. for instance, I remember one male celebrity gave $ 300,000 worth Canary Yellow diamond ring, to his bride. But just after 7 years they split. So…All you need is a lot of love and caring. And this can take you both a long way into marital bliss.

Well…what are those, little things that you could do for your lover? I’ll get nice example, once I had good friend, and he had a beautiful wife too. He was doing work in his office very hard, stressfully. So…at the end of the day, when he went to home' his wife, never asked about his day. Or never touch at least his hand. She just gives something to drink and talk about something and then, normal day today life. But one day, his friend asked him to go for a social club. So after very hard working stressful day, he went there. He met a women there and, “She asked “Hi…how was the day for you” Ironically my friend told all about his office and how hard it was. So… he got very relax. Since that day, he went to this social club on regular basis, and meet that woman. Believe me, he was very good family guy and didn’t go beyond that level with that women. But now he likes that woman and visit her most of the days. Actually it was a very little thing which can done by his wife. But she didn’t do and it really matters to him with his busy life. so those type of little things are really matters to a perfect relationship. perhaps, It may not for every day. I know, nowadays are really busy for both males and females. But keep your mind that, it will keep both of you much alive.

  

When you get a chance, always try to remind that how your lover, meant to you. May be how nice he or she, how much you love, Compliment her or him, the way his looks, her hair, her smile, her voice, her eyes, his sense of humor, her or his intelligence, something she has achieved, something she is proud of doing, The way he makes you feel so special and cared for, his caring touch, his passionate behavior, his possessiveness, etc. When you are going to be late getting home or when you have to meet your partner, call and let them know that you’ll be late. It is very inconsiderate to make your partner wait without calling. Hold each other’s hand in public. A little public display of affection is always good for love and it will make trust and rely on each other.

In spite of the fact that they are “little” they can mean so much to your lover, and ensure that your partner would be fulfilled and happy in your relationship or marriage. And when your loved one is happy, you’re happy, so it’s a win-win situation. These are just a few of the little things in love that really count more than all the gifts and wealth in the world. There are many more, and surely you can think of a few. Just as long as it doesn’t cost money, and makes your sweetheart feel special and cared for, it’s all great. Always remember, it’s the little acts of love and cute love actions that matter more than anything else in the world for two people in love.

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Can make anyone love you?

Women can make any man love her? Or a man can make any women love him? What makes someone actually love you? Is it really possible to make anyone love you?

Make anyone love at you is mostly depend on what? Probably it depends on the money and beauty. Probably it may depend on your attitudes or qualities and the way you deal with it.

When we consider about the beauty, reality is all we not born with the beauty. Of course, if we want we could do some artificial things to our body as well as face for add more beauty to our look, like celebrities. But to do that and maintain it, you need considerable amount of money. On the other hand, even if you born with the beauty, if you do not maintain it, that beauty will fade quickly. So the fact is, stay in beautifully, you need money somehow. Other thing is without any beauty and just as being a human being, yet you have big money, you can make someone love you. When you have a nice car or nice house and if you can throw some money for fashion, then you can earn good associations of people. So…you believe it or not, if you have enough money and beauty, you have more chances to make anyone loves you. Unfortunately, that is not true love at all. It is just some selfish attraction between the two of you. In simple terms, you can make someone likes you and even lust for you by admiring your body. And if you lose your money or fade your beauty, love also, fade accordingly. But there is another vital factor here. After falling love with, if both of you bond with your souls, no matter what happened after, you people feel the real love too and stay together for entire life.

On the other hand, attitudes or qualities of yours, means kindness, honesty, and do respect for others and etc. those will help others to make love you. But here, that person also should have a good honest and kind heart to understand how beautiful your soul is. But to obtain this type of understanding about you, in their mind, firstly you need a good approach at them. When you have some friendship with them, you have a chance to let show your qualities for them. But we can’t just approach to any person we wish, without any major reason. It will be a very difficult task to do. But this type of relationship has more chances to long last than others.

So the either way of above, you have a chance to make anyone love you. But keep remember that making real love is not mattress with physical factors. It matters only with soul.

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Love needs care and concern.

Some people believe love is happening for no reason in between two people. It’s just happen and no exact reason or definition for that. So is that the way you think?

Yes…above conclusion may very true for very beginning of a love affair. It’s because at the very first site, we feel love just for first impression. That’s the romance. It happens automatically. But this reality may valid just for few days. Coz’ day by day we get to know each other in deeply. And this understanding will be the key for perfect long term love affair. In that case to keep this wonderful love in live, we need real concerns for sure. In shortly, when time is passing we need good reasons for this love to keep alive. Otherwise it never goes “automatically”.

Time may erode the feelings of care, love and concern in even the best of relationships. Sometime People stop doing the easy nice little things they used to do for each other because they're too tired, or start waiting for the other person to do something nice first. Eventually, both people feel taken for granted and horribly lonely.

Many people think that love should not require any effort. But the truth is, love requires regular refinement of basic relationship skills. Skills such as listening with understanding, expressing feelings with kindness, and resolving conflict without lapsing into criticism. Couples use these relationship enhancement skills generously in the early stages of their relationship. Over time, however, people stop using their skills and rely more and more with increasing resentment on the hope of getting what they want. They stop doing what they gladly did at the beginning.

Some people thinks, “If I have to work so hard in love, something must be wrong with the relationship” or “Isn't love supposed to be spontaneous?” never think in that way. It surely needs care and concern. Otherwise one day or another, your place in the relationship, may be taken by another person forever.

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When you love someone, Could you love, like you gonna die tomorrow?

It’s sound crazy? I guess very few people love like that way. But in that way, love will always be in alive, and fresh. Never get old. Most of the people just do love.  In simply, they love because others also doing love or they want a partner for share things. They want to marry someone, It's because that is the requirement of the society.  They do those things, but they don’t mean it. That’s the common way.

So…how about you guys? Let’s ask a simple question from your heart. “What is the last moment that you told to your lover that “I love you” with a deep feeling. (I know that most of the people say “I love you” after every telephone conversation”). But I mean, with a deep affection. Sometime people do marvelous things, till they make a relationship with someone. But after, they made the relationship; it became a normal day today thing and, just goes.

If you really love someone, it’s better to show them, show your feelings inside of you. Be opened. Let it know them how deep is your love about them. Let it know them how happy you are because of them. Always remind them, how they really mean to you. Most of the time, it’ll help to increase the bond of the relationship and of course the love too. It’ll make your relationship in good shape. And it’ll make more happiness in both of you. You’ll never miss the chances that way. You’ll never be regretting that way. In simply, love like, you gonna die tomorrow. Then you’ll never miss a thing.

 

And also love is like a plant, plant needs more care, sufficient water, sufficient shelter, and sufficient sun shine. Otherwise it’ll die. But when it became a large tree, it will give you the shelter, or the fruit for your hunger. Love is same as a little plant. It needs more care, as a growing little plant. But when it became big enough to care about you, it will care about you for rest of your life.

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Do you want to fall in love with your boy-friend?

Do you like a boy? But he doesn’t care about you? Or do you love a boy? But he doesn’t love you? OK…this could happen often. So what do you do for win him? Here are some few tips to gain it.

Remember that, every boy is thinking girls as sex objects. That’s the truth. If you became a girl friend or a wife for some guy, then he may thinks about you more than sex object. It’s not wrong. And being sexy is jewel for a girl. Simply it’s an asset to a girl. And admire it.  So you must improve it doing something like, dressing well, keeping your body in good shape, avoiding chipped and chewed nails, clean and healthy hair and avoiding unhealthy appearance mainly try to keep your skin in good form. So your dream boy will think about you than before.

Try to choose proper cloths for yourself. You and your cloth must be like voice and the music in a song. It means, cloth should prominent your look. Dress like a girl. Real boys like girls; they don’t like the girls alike boys. A little bit of makeup is absolutely fine. But don’t go overboard assuming you’ll impress the guy with the fancy artwork on your face.

Don’t be a pushy girl; it’ll always be a joke. Mind your language; avoid starting or ending your sentences with cuss words. Use good words, and when you speak with him, have a little honest smile on your face. That is the best way to get a guy to notice you. If you want extra credit, make eye contact. The biggest trait that attracts guys is a girl’s femininity and sensuality. The way you walk, the way you stare at him while doing that thing with your eyes, and everything else that’s girly and feminine matters a lot to a guy.

Let him know that you are available for his happiness and sadness. Get to know about his personal life and his family matters well. So you could close to him. let your hands touch his hands occasionally, it may a good gesture, for let him know that you like him. 

The other most important thing is if you really love him; tell him how you really feel in yourself. Tell him you’re really happy with him. But are afraid of the future because you have no idea what could happen after this. If he has any sense, he’ll know it’s time for him to make some assurances to you. Don’t hide your emotions or play with words. And if he really does love you, he won’t be upset to hear that. Instead, he’ll say something that makes you feel better.

So finally this guy may truly falling love with you, but he may not be interested in marriage. Can you deal with that? If you can’t handle that, and are really serious about getting married soon, it’s probably time to ask yourself if you’re with the right guy for you.

And the same time remember that, every boy is looking for a girl who is dreaming in his mind. That dream girl’s main profile or fact may be about the body complexion, or hair color, slim, fat, it may vary. It means, each other’s desires are different. So if he is not looking for a girl like you, there is nothing you could do here. Don’t try to change yourself for him. It never gonna achieve. You just move and find someone who likes who you are now.

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Do you feel true love?

True love takes time to take well form. Other thing is love at first sight always not really true love on every occasion. In fact, love at first sight is nothing but an infatuation, sometimes. It’s just a strong romantic and sexual feeling.

Sometime true love is hard to define exactly, but there are some signs of true love in a relationship.

If you’re in kind a relationship with someone and want to know if you’re experiencing true love, check whether are there any of these signs in your relationship.

You give every good thing to the relationship in wholeheartedly, without any expectations of getting something back in return from your loved one. Just watching this special person smile out loud fills you with full of happiness, though you’re suffering or having a hard day. You may terribly hurt when your lover did wrong thing to you, but their actions never anger you. You do sacrifices for their happiness, even if they may never know it. As always try to do things and make an effort to improve the relationship, and play a conscious part in trying to please your partner and make them feel loved and special. You can’t ever hurt them. When you’re in love with someone, you can’t even imagine hurting them. Payback is a strong human instinct. So get rid of it.  You keep your promises. When you make a promise to them, no matter what, keep your promise. Even if this person will never find out if you broke their promise. When you experience true love, your moral conscience becomes very strong when. In a good relationship, it’s good to have your own space to grow as individuals. But at the same time, you’d see them as a part of your life. When you think of your future, you can’t help, but see them by your side. you must share their burden. And you do that even if you don’t really need to do so. You if they’re involving with some issue, you’re always willing to give helping hand even when you have your own difficulties to look into. You must pride of them, when they achieve something. Even you failed to achieve same thing.  

If you’re in a relationship and if you are not experiencing above true love signs, you have to more care about your relationship. Perhaps, your relationship hasn’t reached the state of emotional maturity that surpasses physical attraction or the stage of infatuation.

However, if both of you feel you are doing great in your love affair, just go with it. Don’t try to change anything about it. It’s because, selfless and unconditional love takes time to get well form. Remember, you can’t go into the next stage in love if not both of you are ready for it.

But keep remember that, although above things are there, as long as your lover and you are happy and understand each other, you people have such great love!

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