Sometime we suspect our loved one badly, though we love each other very much. Most of the relationships break due to suspects’ without any kind of real suspicious things, just for imaginations.
There may be few reasons for that. So the main reason are, suppose, we do love someone so much, so we scare to lose them. In that case, it happened due to not having a trust in the relationship. On The other hand, it happened due to the desire about the person. Unfaithfulness and desire are the main reasons for suspicious minds. Mainly, if we have only desire but not love, this will happen. If you do love really for your partner, same time, if you keep in trust for each other, you’ll never face that type of situation. Most of the people realize, desire as the true love. If you really do love for someone, you don’t keep much desire about them, means already you lost the right for them and you don’t have anything to lose again and never accept anything from them. Real love is only a giving. When other person do the same, it will be perfect. So you do love your lover as much as you can. And keep trust in your partner. You’ll never suspect about them.
Other important thing is, if we do love really for someone, we must give them freedom as much as they want. I have seen that, there are boys who do not allow for their girls to even dress as they like. those boys think, their girls must do everything according to their desires. Some girls never let their boyfriends to go with his friends and enjoy. So do you see any love in there? It’s not a love. It’s only a desire and its slavery. In a way like that, you always suspect you partner. Because, you always think, your partner may do any wrong thing without knowing you. Freedom is a vital concern in a perfect relationship. Give freedom as much as they want. And let them know, about your like and unlike. If they really love you, they never do any wrong to make sad in you. But if they utilize their unlimited freedom as chances to do wrong, please allow them to go away. Coz’ one day or another, certainly they leave you. Never regret about them. Consider it as a blessing instead. True love will never leave us.
Another fact for People suspects their partner is jealousy. If your partner is much beautiful or handsome, if he is a smart than you, if he has more money than you, or more attractive than you, so naturally it’s making jealousy in your mind. And the same time you think, they may go with someone else, because you are not worth for them. You do self de-evaluate about yourself. In case of that, you may have inferiority complex in your mind. That is kind of a mental illness. And the other worse thing is, if one person is giving much freedom and love really, for his or her partner, but the other person is doing only, Suspects but nothing, It’s not gonna work out. And the other person thinks, “Though I love her so much, still she suspects me, so my love is nothing in her”. Then what happen is, eventually it will lead to separation from each other.
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