Love your lover without any reasons.

Why do you love your lover? Do you have any reasons for that? Have you ever asked that question from yourself? Do you have an answer for that?

Perhaps, you may say she is beautiful or she is very kind or her voice is so sweet, her body is amazing, or he is very hot, his eyes are so pretty or he loves me so much…etc. so…it means you love them because of a reason or bunch of reasons?

Well…what happen, one of above reasons disappear from them forever? Do you can still love them? 

But doing love without a reason seems somewhat odd or insane. So…it’s very true when we are falling in love with someone, it’s because for one or many of above reasons.  But the problem is, after this starting point of doing love, if you are still continuing love that person just for this reason or reasons, it may tricky. And it’s not a love. It calls desire. Desire is never last long. It has an end. And it’s true, desire also can keep both of you awaking, but it’s not the true love.  And after ending of the desire, you may frustrate about you partner. In that case, being love for reason is May not gonna long last.  So…end of the desire, you just gonna walk away from them?

 But of course, at the start you may love for a reason, but eventually you may love no matter what or without any reason. That’s the real love. It happens due to spiritual understanding. So the point is love without a reason is forever. Otherwise, if the reason you love is gone, some day, you will be disappointed and you may break up with them. And keep remember that, pure love doesn’t have any reason, as well as it will remain in every season.

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When you love someone, Could you love, like you gonna die tomorrow?

It’s sound crazy? I guess very few people love like that way. But in that way, love will always be in alive, and fresh. Never get old. Most of the people just do love.  In simply, they love because others also doing love or they want a partner for share things. They want to marry someone, It's because that is the requirement of the society.  They do those things, but they don’t mean it. That’s the common way.

So…how about you guys? Let’s ask a simple question from your heart. “What is the last moment that you told to your lover that “I love you” with a deep feeling. (I know that most of the people say “I love you” after every telephone conversation”). But I mean, with a deep affection. Sometime people do marvelous things, till they make a relationship with someone. But after, they made the relationship; it became a normal day today thing and, just goes.

If you really love someone, it’s better to show them, show your feelings inside of you. Be opened. Let it know them how deep is your love about them. Let it know them how happy you are because of them. Always remind them, how they really mean to you. Most of the time, it’ll help to increase the bond of the relationship and of course the love too. It’ll make your relationship in good shape. And it’ll make more happiness in both of you. You’ll never miss the chances that way. You’ll never be regretting that way. In simply, love like, you gonna die tomorrow. Then you’ll never miss a thing.

 

And also love is like a plant, plant needs more care, sufficient water, sufficient shelter, and sufficient sun shine. Otherwise it’ll die. But when it became a large tree, it will give you the shelter, or the fruit for your hunger. Love is same as a little plant. It needs more care, as a growing little plant. But when it became big enough to care about you, it will care about you for rest of your life.

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